Miss Manners – Winter Contemplation 2022

It’s called hygge, defined as a quality of coziness and comfortable conviviality that engenders a feeling of contentment or well-being. It’s a defining characteristic of Danish culture, where winters can be long and dark and cold.

Here in the middle of a North American winter, we’ve been experiencing some pretty darn chilly days.  A little bit of hygge (purse your lips and say hu-gue) might feel pretty good right now, so I invite you to join me in front of the fireplace. 

A few reminders that I hope you take to heart:

• It’s time for the earth, its flora and its fauna, to conserve energy and renew;
• Most plants are dormant, they take this opportunity to rest up for renewed activity in the warmer days ahead;
• Many animals are in a survival mode, on minimum rations, so leave them alone.

If you can’t resist venturing out into the parks at this time of year:

• Dress in layers, stay hydrated, take along a snack, and wear water-proof boots;
• When meeting others on the trail, keep your distance, announce your presence as appropriate, and wear a mask if you need to;
• When in the parks, stay on the trail. If the trail is muddy, hike in the mud, don’t start a new parallel trail, or just turn around and fine another trail in better condition;
• Know before you go.

Alternatively, give Nature the chance to restore itself. Put on your warmest socks, make yourself some hot chocolate (or pour a glass of wine), turn on your favorite music and enjoy the quiet time at home.

Winter by Rick Warr, June 2017

time to stop
hunker down
withdraw
think
reflect
celebrate silence
hibernate
conserve
hug
roast
contemplate
regenerate
sleep
dream
breathe fresh air
enjoy winter
the quiet season

Looking forward to seeing you in the 2022 springtime. Until then, stay safe!
Miss Manners